What to speak with a Russian girl about

Let's accept that you have invited your Russian girl to appointment. Or you have created a situation, when you are together with your Russian girl. Or a Russian girl has appeared suddenly herself – in a train, for example. In general, differently happens. But there is a moment when you understand that it is necessary to tell something and what exactly – it is not clear, because teachers at schools do not teach you that, and at home usually too … 

And earlier the program of training for children of noble family without fail included these questions – on a level with dances and etiquette. And even it was necessary to pass exams!

What to speak with a Russian girl about

To begin with think quickly what you already know about this Russian girl. If you are acquainted with the Russian girl for a long time already – then the situation is easier. Simply think what can be interesting to the Russian girl in life – and ask her opinions on this or that. In general, questions are an ideal way to receive a lot of information, including what is waited from you and what it is not necessary to do. It is necessary simply to know how to listen to your Russian girl – that is to show attention and really to penetrate into what has been told by your Russian girl. 

If there is something common in a life between you and your Russian girl – acquaintances, study/work, etc. – suggest your Russian girl to discuss this aspect. It is very good, if you will be interested in the life of your Russian girl, as she will estimate such attention of you (but it is not necessary to ask at once questions about her private life). 

To start talk on any subject, you can produce a small slice of the information yourself, but it has to be more or less true. Thus take your time categorically to state the personal relationships with your Russian girl – if a question for you is basic, leave it on the future when both of you will be assured in your feelings, and when you will really understand each other completely adequately. 

If anything home-general to a head does not come, it is possible to look on a situation. Probably, something in shape of your Russian girl will prompt sphere of her interests (the book in hands; the dog on a lead …).

And the simplest variant – it is simply to sort out "eternal" subjects. For example: 

Music (what your Russian girl listens, what is pleasant/not pleasant, why);

The literature (what is pleasant/not pleasant to read, what hero your Russian girl likes, why, in the world of what book your Russian girl would like to appear, etc.);

Sports (it is cautious! It is better to start with the questions what sport your Russian girl likes and watches, instead of with «do you go to an exercise room?» unless the figure of the Russian girl shows such suppositions);

Favorite/not favorite places in a city (what the Russian girl likes and where she likes to spend her spare time);

Work/study (if there is a desire to develop this subject), pets;

Philosophical questions (if there are bases to assume that it can be interesting to your Russian girl – appropriate level of the common development) etc.

BUT! We advise you try to build talk to the Russian girl so that it was not similar to interrogation of your Russian girl, but was live easy talk. For this purpose it is convenient to tell at first, for example, something about yourself, the interests, hobbies – and then to ask the Russian girl to tell something about herself. If you wish to communicate in the future with this Russian girl – insert therein into the story about your own hobbies and abilities. For example, if you like to go by bicycle, you can propose her the company (if she knows how) or teach her to do this. If the speech is about the read books – suggest to esteem something interesting, or the ideal variant – book continuation which was read by your Russian girl, or something such that she has searched for a long time. In general, show imagination aside «that I can offer her such that it has been interesting to her». One more "counter" – to ask your Russian girl not so much about a reality, but more about perception, thoughts, dreams …

And one more thing … if after durable (or not so) talk on any subject you have felt that comprehensively it has been discussed – usually during this moment the pause, awkward silence is installed – smoothly give the conversation another turn.

And now it is about what it is not necessary to do.

First of all it is not necessary to say lies. Neither in any sort and nor under any sauce. A unique way not to be tangled in the invented stories – do not invent them (unless you are the professional scout, but then you know about what and how to talk to your Russian girl). Besides, it is not known as your word will respond, and to start up gossips – is the last business. Certainly, you can tell fairy tales, parables, to retell the book or to create it directly here and now – simply see that finally all it has not been accepted for a pure coin. Because a conscious deceit – that is what any Russian girl usually does not forgive. Irresponsible, however, a Russian girl forgives seldom too.

Also it is not necessary to advertise actively yourself. To the Russian girl it is uninteresting hours to listen about how much you are abrupt, as it is not clear, how adequately to respond. If you need sincere delight of your Russian girl – it is won not by words. So instead of telling how many kg you can lift, lift on hands your Russian girl, and it will be much more effective.

We do not advise you also too actively to praise your Russian girl highly – because you put her in awkward position. Hardly your Russian girl is assured of herself 100 %, so with a high probability repeating compliments will be perceived as jeer. 

If you communicate with your Russian girl as with the girl instead of as with the friend in a skirt, it is not necessary to discuss with your Russian girl other girls. It is simply unpleasant to her, irrespective of in what way the talk is. The exception – the girl-psychologist or if her trade/hobby allows to discuss others in a professional key (so, is quite admissible to discuss a hair dress of passing by lady with the girl-hairdresser).

It is not necessary to discuss also her or your relatives and a financial position – at least, not on the first appointments. To a Russian girl it will be more pleasant, if you show that she is on the first place for you among all the persons – instead of «a daughter of the rich daddy», for example.

And the most important thing that it is not necessary to do – this is to go in cycles in any instruction, including on this. Because universal recipes are not present and cannot be, as any Russian girl differs from another Russian girl. So pay attention first of all to how your own Russian girl reacts to your words – and she will prompt you what to speak about.