Slavic woman in Switzerland
There is a tendency among the Swiss men as well as between the French men also, to marry a Slavic woman. To tell the truth, this tendency is throughout the whole world…
It has become common to marry a Slavic woman, like Russian, Ukrainian, Romanian, as these women became the present stars. But, what is special in a Slavic woman that other women do not have?
When Svetlana Bomgartner who has been born in Kiev, and now lives in Preveranzh (a city in Switzerland) with the Swiss husband, has come to a car school on the first lesson on driving, the instructor has been not happy with her very much: «I have already told: I will drive on heels so let's start now!» Nobody could force to change Svetlana’s decision, nor the neighbor who has been warped by a grimace, neither the important things that make others to capitulate, haven’t made Svetlana to change her mind: «Even, when I go with a carriage, I carry heels!»
But what does a Slavic woman have special? The Swiss women have the right to ask a question, seeing marriage tendencies: Swiss men marry compatriots seldom, if women search for the immigrants successfully living in territory of Switzerland, the Swiss men actively search for partners abroad, they search for a Slavic woman.
Whether the negative problem, the bad relation to the Swiss women hangs on the agenda?
Quite: «the Swiss women are whining, boring and captious!» - Fabris Schneider, the landscape writer from Ljutri (a city in Switzerland), married to the Slavic woman from St.-Petersburg has summed up. In the world there are tendencies of marriages with a Slavic woman, and they have a tremendous success.
Sociological supervision shows that the loneliest Swiss women are basically teachers of universities. Their shout is in brief stated in Beatrice Shlag's article, in weekly edition Weltwoche, Zurich (13.01): «If the price for emancipation is a loneliness, then good night!»
Whether a Slavic woman on territory of Switzerland is really an obedient housewife? Whether there is a difference between a grumbling woman without heels and a good beautiful Slavic woman?
Let's talk about those whom we know least and we will try to solve a secret of a Slavic woman.
Any Slavic woman is really very womanly:
«A Slavic woman has a make-up to feel the woman, a Slavic woman has bit more brightly colors, than local women», - underlines Vivesan Ren, familiar with the Russian customs.
Svetlana Bomgartner does not deny it.
«But height of heels is not inversely proportional to quantity of diplomas. On state to the account set of inquiries about the Russian-Swiss marriages also we will notice that a Slavic woman often possesses a diploma of engineer, psychologist or chemist. However it does not prevent a Slavic woman to make and have some sexy features and dodges, never seen in a lobby of the Swiss university», - the present inhabitant (a city in Switzerland) explains.
However the matter is not only in ability of a Slavic woman to be womanly to a greater or lesser extent, but also in a manner of a Slavic woman to wear clothes: «the Swiss women are capable to come to the university in a T-shirt full of holes, a Slavic woman will never allow such to herself», - Svetlana says. A Slavic woman waits when men behave gallantly and do not forget to give her flowers at her birthday. In a word a Slavic woman with all her heart waits for the traditionally accepted behavior between the man and the woman.
But what has a Slavic woman cope with when she arrives to Switzerland?
Albina Boekli, the Doctor of Philology, working in a sphere of finance services who is married here for about 12 years, lives in Geneva tells: «At the beginning it has been very difficult for me, my husband has not showed me even small signs on attention, in his understanding it has been respect for my freedom, and in mine - a lack of attention and care».
A Slavic woman willingly occupies all traditional fields of a housewife: children, housework, social life.
If the Swiss woman «pays for coffee to show that she has money, a Slavic woman will allow a man pay for her to show that she is a woman», - speaks Svetlana. But if something happens, a Slavic woman is always ready to pay for herself and will find the way: for a Slavic woman who has just arrived to Switzerland really there is a problem of dependence on the husband, but it does not last too long.
«As soon as a Slavic woman receives a driving license, she starts to study or searches for possibility to improve the diplomas, and dependence on the husband vanishes. «To live off the husband», in Russian there is such an expression, and is not typical behavior of a Slavic woman», - Svetlana speaks. Any Slavic woman has such thirst to acquisition of knowledge and independence. «I have seen many Slavic wives occupying more interesting posts, than their husbands and they have freedom», - tells Ren.
In general a Slavic woman is a super woman! Ren corrects: «not in that sense in which we have got used to understand this word, a Slavic woman is moved not by a desire of social recognition, but by a desire and need to become independent».
A Slavic woman is a strong personality:
Demographers observe exciting phenomenon in the countries of the former union: the raised alcoholism and high death rate among men, in full blossoming of forces. "Iron Curtain" falling has caused the big economic instability, this is a theme which is often discussed.
«Many our men are disappointed, broken, suffer of alcoholism, often they leave pregnant women. In general we cannot rely on Russian men», - Svetlana speaks.
«In Russia to be assured that work is executed well, it is necessary to count only on the woman, they advance a national economy», - speaks Ren.
«My husband has been fascinated by this huge vitally force of a Slavic woman, an instinct of a survival, this ability of a Slavic woman to adapt», - Albina tells.
«A Slavic woman transfers all without complaints, to pretend to be a victim is not in her style of behavior. A Slavic woman is very firm. A Slavic woman undertakes all affairs and does them with a smile», - adds Ren.
A Slavic woman possesses a parent instinct:
