SINGLE WOMAN. A single woman has to love herself!
It is not easy to be a single woman. It is not easy to be a single woman at any time of the year. We do not argue that many troubles are already endured: melancholy grey autumn with a bare landscape behind a window and eternal dampness; cold dark winter, with holidays of type "New Year's eve" and «Valentine’s Day». It is so cool and funny to receive-send hearts for beloved, and for a single woman – not a beloved one? Has somebody thought of the feelings and sensations of a single woman? When others are with their family and with a real fur - tree, and a single woman is alone with a glass of champagne and the president in the TV? Or when everyone is in hearts, and a single woman – in …. Well it is not important. Perhaps, even a single woman is not in tears. Anyway, a single woman – is a strong woman. But early to relax: on the way the main trial – lonely spring. How to endure it to a "free" single woman?
Every year the same delusion overtakes the world: we suddenly start to notice a shining sun, to hear singing of birds and to admire the dark blue sky. With surprise we detect that the world shares on representatives of two different genders! This is the time when even simple words of a song «About love, about you», sounding of each motor vehicle, chafe soul; then you suddenly start to feel especially sharply that you are a single woman…
Why? Why does it suddenly start to seem that only your lonely silhouette, a silhouette of a single woman is evident to the passer-by, as a palm tree among desert? A single woman is like the moon in the dark sky. And what disharmony brings, as this lonely silhouette drops out of a picture of general prosperity! It seems that all people notice that you are a single woman, that you are lonely...
Yes, these busy spring days when the world suddenly acquires kissing couples and to be a single woman is not comfortable.
A single woman starts to look narrowly at men and their companions, mentally speaking to herself: «And what has he found in her? Hmm… With me he would look better … And in general, am I worse than she?! Why am I a single woman? What to do?»
1. To pretend that you notice nothing.
What can be easier? You are a single woman, so you can wear the same knitted jackets with the extended sleeves which put on in winter cold evenings, avoid the hairdresser and solar rays. At work without lifting a head dig in the computer or do reports on half a year forwards, for the future. Perhaps will be useful … to flirt with colleagues? Do not do this, as they are not for you… not for a single woman.
Be in proud loneliness. Do not respond to calls of girlfriends, and in general turn off your phone - it is economical. Watch TV, but only releases of news and criminal reports. In transport do not pay attention to man's interested sights – listen to CD, put on ear-phones and go deep into the book. Select something capturing, for example «New from ichthyology». Do not buy female magazines and do not look at show-windows – spring fashion trends are watched by any anxious little fools. You are not among them, you are a single woman! Doing this way you will not notice spring!
Some minuses: in a week you will feel that it is hot in a jacket. And hair wants to the hairdresser. What to do? Up to you!
2. To do a lot and not cheap.
The beautician, compartment, boutiques, the subscription in fitness – more expensive club … you has already enough worried in this grey autumn-winter everyday life and it is time for a single woman to wake up! Cardinally refresh clothes taking into account the latest trends – fashions. Make absolutely new hair dress, change a hair color – to be different to that single woman you have been before. To hell all these foolish reports at work – they can be made later, all at once. And now – look better at your colleagues. Whether there is no among them a newcomer? Or maybe there is one among them who you can put an eye on?! Make it immediately. Why not? You - are free, beautiful, are moderately young single woman!
If there is nothing to look at in the collective – use all other resources: girl-friends, night clubs, Internet resources, eventually! If it turns out nothing, a valuable advice: take a photo, write the gentle-volume message and send on a site of acquaintances. Carry on correspondence and wait to find out where it can lead you!
3. A single woman has to love herself!
If there is no desire to miss precious instants of a life and to be crazy is not in your character – there is a variant for such single woman too! Maybe you are not interested in any man yet and you do not know what you wish yourself … Then you have to begin to love yourself first. Excellent solution! All the best – for yourself!
One fine day on the way to work you suddenly will understand that this spring wind which has seemed cool earlier and sharp – simply wishes to show to everyone that you have beautiful and thick hair.
And by the way, this spring has come to show how to blossom! «But who is he?!» – you ask. Soon you will find out this…
Have you got tired of the first appointments which end by nothing? Have you tired to fall in love with men who are not ready to serious relationships? Register on the dating site and find your man there… who knows where a single woman can meet her half…
