Russian mail order brides about themselves
Russian mail order brides say that the main element in their appearance is the outer beauty (16% of all the opinions). They stress their charm, attractiveness, femininity, beauty.
"Russian mail order brides are the most beautiful", "Our girls from Kursk and Oryol are the ground of legends between the foreigners", "They are beautiful both inside, and outside", "Russian mail order brides really want men to like them".
Spiritual qualities are a little behind (13%), and they are kindness, faithfulness, reliability, carefulness, tolerance, lack of materialism. These qualities are important for the family, as in general family remains the main value for Russian mail order brides. "Russian mail order brides place the family over everything. Russian mail order brides are ready to sacrifice their successful career to be with the husband and children." And the role of a wife is even more important than that of a mother "Russian mail order brides have kind hearts. If they get married, Russian mail order brides give themselves to their men totally". Russian mail order brides find it natural to accept the way of life of their husbands. It doesn't mean they do not try to affect them. Russian mail order brides do not reject them. Russian mail order brides are always with their husbands. (But form the other side "The care for the children is the main in the life of Russian mail order brides" according to some opinions.)
Intellectual and spiritual sphere was mentioned in 9 % of the opinions. And it shows the mismatch of the opinion of Russian mail order brides abour themselves, with the stereotype in the society (men from Russian and abroad value the intellect of Russian mail order brides). The qualities in this group are imagination, education, ability to learn, creativity, self development, spirituality. We cannot say that "Russian mail order brides underestimate themselves". The stereotypes affect the situation, and Russian mail order brides do not value their abilities.
Intellectual sphere is joined by the labour one with 7% of the opinions. Here we need to stress the professional skills, lack of careerism, stamina, ability to work at full stretch, to perform men's duties, connecting with physical work.
Russian mail order brides believe themselves to be unique, not like the others. "Russian mail order brides are unique creatures", "Russian mail order brides possess unique rich experience of independence and development", etc. Uniqueness of Russian mail order brides is the nourishing environment for the self view of a unique personality, natural, independent, noble, individual, whole-natured, harmonious: "Whole-hearted nature of Russian mail order brides doesn't stand half-measures", "Our women can do anything, each of the Russian mail order brides deserves being a queen", "We dress for pleasure. We like to invent something new" etc. Among other characteristics we need to mention their heroism 7 %, seen in self-sacrifice and in all-mightiness; the behaviour sphere 7%, including tactfulness, tolerance, ability to compromise, responsibility; popularity among men and in modeling world 5 %, which is seen in going into extremes, unconcern, unpredictability.
In general, you can tell that the world acknowledges the uniqueness of Russian mail order brides, their unusual beauty, rare spiritual features, and ability of Russian mail order brides to combine professional life with the family comfort. It is high time to wish Russian mail order brides to have more confidence in their own powers, to find application to all the numerous talents Russian mail order brides have, and despite patriarch recurrences not to underestimate their qualities.
