The rules of Real Ukrainian Brides

1. Real Ukrainian brides do not pursue happiness.

Real Ukrainian brides do not pursue anything. Pursuing happiness is the most popular and the most stupid sport ever. We all run somewhere. We pursue happy future, the day of tomorrow, the next year, etc.

Real Ukrainian brides are not practicing this sport. Real Ukrainian brides swim along the life river, always in today' as the present time is the most interesting and important from what attracts her attention. Of course, real Ukrainian brides have plans for the future, but they do not put off life for tomorrow. Real Ukrainian brides do not wait that their life will start when+ (+when she finally loses weight, when the prince gallops to her, when there will be the right circumstances).  

2. To be real Ukrainian brides is a privilege, and they understand it.

Real Ukrainian brides treat with trepidation the fact of being a woman. They see special value in it. Real Ukrainian brides do not just feel being a woman' as a notion, they feel themselves as such. Real Ukrainian brides see being a woman not like a trial, a burden or a misery they have stand all life long. It is the destiny's gift.

Real Ukrainian brides cultivate femininity in themselves at all levels: inner (feelings, sensations, thoughts) and outer (body, clothes, behaviour). 

3. Real Ukrainian brides live in their own tempo. 

When your life tempo is too slow, this is not life at all. When you live too fast, you do not have time to feel the life. Each of real Ukrainian brides has her own life tempo.

Real Ukrainian brides know it well and live according to it. Real Ukrainian brides avoid extremes, they do not lie on the sofa, as well as they do not mess around as chicken. Real Ukrainian brides regulate their load, and set the circumstances around them in tempo. Real Ukrainian brides live in the way that allows them both to do what they want, and at the same time not to lose the taste for life. The main thing in the actions of real Ukrainian brides is not the quantity of movements, but the exact estimation and understanding of what they do and why.

4. Real Ukrainian brides are of prime importance for themselves.

It doesn't mean that real Ukrainian brides are selfish and stale, heartless or cynical. Real Ukrainian brides just know that behind the wish to be busy with the lives of the other people often stands the fear to live their own lives. Real Ukrainian brides are interested in their own lives, they do not lose the feeling of value of their own space. At the same time real Ukrainian brides are capable of support, understanding and active part in the lives of other people. Real Ukrainian brides do not say yes', when the heart says no'. They always listen to their inner voice and rely on intuition.

5. Real Ukrainian brides do not need credit books for social opinion.

This credit book - for parents, teachers, neighbours, relatives, friends and colleagues - is given to every girl in the childhood. And often girls devote lives to passing the exams for it. Real Ukrainian brides have thrown the credit book away. It is not for real Ukrainian brides to tick the boxes like married - unmarried', normal - abnormal', single - not single', like everyone - not like everyone'+

Real Ukrainian brides live according to their life orienteers, they invent them and bring them to life. And if they are different from the standards of other women, real Ukrainian brides are not worried about it. Real Ukrainian brides allow other people to evaluate them as those people feel like, and real Ukrainian brides know that the mission to be loved by everyone' is silly and impossible.

Real Ukrainian brides work over themselves, but they never do it to win someone's appreciation. Real Ukrainian brides do it because they love themselves. 

6. Real Ukrainian brides have grown over their own good girl.

A good girl is brought up by the caring parents. She has one aim - to evoke approval, to be loved by everyone. She is to make people like her even when her own wishes are against it. A good girl lives between two principles I must' or I must not'. She seldom asks herself what she really wants. Real Ukrainian brides left their good girls' behind, as well as the constant striving to be approved and praised. It doesn't mean that real Ukrainian brides do not care how they are estimated. Real Ukrainian brides simply do not prove anything to anyone, especially to their harm. The features, that are called drawbacks and inherent to everyone, are surely noticed by real Ukrainian brides. But they do not dramatize them. Real Ukrainian brides neither hide them, nor show them off.

7. Real Ukrainian brides do not overcome difficulties, but passes around them.

Overcoming obstacles is the destiny of a warrior. Real Ukrainian brides never play superheroes. When real Ukrainian brides meet obstacles on the way, they do not bang their head at the brick wall, they think if there is a pass-by or if they can use this obstacle as a springboard. Real Ukrainian brides stake on flexibility, and not force. An obstacle for real Ukrainian brides is a riddle, and not a foe to fight. Real Ukrainian brides know that every situation has not only difficult, but also an easy decision, and they know the art of choosing the right place and the right time for their actions.

8. Real Ukrainian brides do not play the drama "How difficult my life is!"

When you look at real Ukrainian brides, you will never say that she is surviving: working day and night for money, wash, clean, take care of children and family. You will never say real Ukrainian brides are exhausted with the repairs at home or at the village house. Even when they are really pressed with the duties, real Ukrainian brides find the time to recover and to look well. Real Ukrainian brides will never play victims, as they know that the circumstances are difficult because we treat them so. Cart-horse' is the soul diagnosis and not the influence of the circumstances. A woman can be a cart-horse wherever and whenever, with any quantity of work and kids, and without it all. 

9. Loneliness for real Ukrainian brides is a gift.

The periods of loneliness, should they be any, are valued and loved by real Ukrainian brides. They do not strive to pull the new acquaintances and men into life from the fear to remain face to face with themselves.

Being on your own is a gift. It is the best time to recover, to fill your life with calmness and depth. Real Ukrainian brides are interested in themselves, and use the time of loneliness with pleasure. 

10. Real Ukrainian brides love their age. 

Always. Real Ukrainian brides live in their own real age, suing all of its benefits. Real Ukrainian brides do not tell themselves that something is too late' or too early' for this age. This philosophy is for those who use years to cover their fears and inner taboos. Real Ukrainian brides allow themselves everything and at any age. Real Ukrainian brides have no regrets that they missed something in their lives. It doesn't mean that real Ukrainian brides do not take care of their looks. It only means that real Ukrainian brides do not try to look younger their ages and do not play the ones they were 20 years ago. Real Ukrainian brides know that every age has its beauty, sexuality and charm.