Golden Rules of meeting a single lady

Any man who wants to meet a single lady is asking himself with many questions “How to start talking to her? What to say? How to make her like me?” The thoughts of a single lady who wants a man to get acqauinated to her are the same “How to arrange it so that the man of my dreams would come to me? How to start acquaintance?  What should I talk with him about? How to make him like me and to continue this relationship?” It is evident that both man and single lady have the same approach to the problem of introduction for the serious relationships. And the men who understand it will have success with each single lady. 

the place where you plan to meet a single lady plays a huge part. The best seems to be night clubs and parties of all kinds. The simple reason is that it is common and quite decent to come to the single lady and introduce yourself at the flirt party. And the single lady who is seeking for the man of her dreams often will go right there. 

The question “How to arrange it so that the man of my dream would come to a single lady?” is answered this way “I am to look good. I need to show that I allow him to approach me and that I am 'white and fluffy', he is to see it from my merry eyes and my broad smile”.

So, dear gentlemen, if at the party you see a single lady who has evidently devoted much time to her good looks, and who looks into the eyes of the strangers with curiosity, and whose face is from time to time brightened with a mysterious and happy smile, you should know that this single lady is looking for the man of her dream. Maybe this single lady is looking just for you. Come to the single lady with no fear ;) You will have your couple of minutes. The rest depends on you.

If you see a delightful single lady, who looks a little ordinary compared to all the guests, and her sad face is full of thoughts and has no glimpse of a happy smile, you should think once more if this single lady is from your dream. If she is, approach this single lady with courage anyway. 

So, you have all your courage condensed, and you have come to the single lady. The most difficult follows – introducing yourself, making acquaintance. 

A single lady would reply the question “How to start the acquaintance with a man of your dream?” in the following way “The man is to make the first step. The reason is simple ‘He a Man. And my mission as a single lady is to create all the conditions for the meeting to happen and to last.”

As you see, dear gentlemen, there is not so much required from you – just the first step to meet your single lady. Even if she hasn’t planned any acquaintance, and if she plans to give you the go-by, the single lady will tell you her name. The effect of surprise will work and make you acquainted.

In the moment of acquaintance with a single lady try to remember the name of a single lady: the sound of your own name is the most pleasant thing for the human ear. And you are to call the single lady as she has introduced herself to you. If a single lady has told that her name is Dasha there is no place for any ‘baby’ or ‘dear’, etc.

When you will introduce yourself to the single lady, repeat your name several times, so that the single lady would remember it. Why not give your business-card to the single lady?

So, it is for you to make the first step to meeting the single lady. It is very important to remember the name of the single lady, and to use the same name that she used to introduce herself. You should use any chance to remind you name to the single lady. 

After your meeting has happened, there are just several seconds enough for the single lady to make up an opinion about you. And depending on this impression, bad or good, your acquaintance will either finish at once or will successfully develop. And to make the impression positive, you are to interest the single lady with the subject of the conversation. 

A single lady is as well worried with the question “What to talk about?” And a single lady replies to themselves “No matter what to talk about with the man, it only matters that the topic is interesting to the man. And the most interesting topic for the person is his own self. So, I am to talk to the man of my dream about himself.”

This way, dear gentleman, you understand now that the first 5-10 minutes you are to talk to single lady about yourself. And do not be surprised: 

1) You are the only topic that interests the single lady. The single lady is to know whom she has got acquainted with. 

2) The single lady can always support this topic. And if you touch the subject, she knows nothing about, your single lady will feel embarrassed, ashamed and bored, and soon she will run away from you. 

3) If you want to learn something of the single lady, tell her the same information about yourself. Do you want to know what a single lady does for living? Tell her of your job and hobbies.

 4) The single lady is to feel that it is her who is so smart and clever, who found the wonderful topic for the conversation, and that it is she who is creating the conditions for it, that it is she who is interested in its continuation. 

5) And the last, modesty is the best policy only for the men who have achieved nothing and can do nothing. They are really can be improved by the modesty only. And you are the best speaker about yourself. 

After the first 5-10 minutes of talking about yourself, you are to start talking about the single lady. And only about her. 

So, the conclusion is like this – the first 5-10 minutes of your conversation with the single lady are to be devoted to you, and then to her, and only to her. 

You have already told a single lady how clever, successful, kind, generous, attentive you are… And a single lady nearly likes you. But it lacks something… 

If you have evoked a slightest interest in a single lady, she has just one thought now “How to make this man like me? Not just like me, but to get crazy about me?” Even if you haven’t evoked any interest with the single lady, she is still bothered with this question. Because this is the nature of a woman – to entice and allure men. And the more men, the better.

This is why the simplest way to make the single lady like you is to tell her that you like this single woman, you like just her, and you won’t notice any other single woman in the world. 

It is not advised to stare at the single lady. You might embarrass her this way, or even frighten. And it is totally inadmissible to curiously stare at the separate parts of the boy of a single lady 

The best way to show your deep interest in the single lady is the flow of compliments. And the compliments are not only to be about the looks of the single lady. During the conversation with the single lady you will have lots of reasons to say “Oh my god! And you managed? I am impressed! I am delighted! You did great!” Though, you should be careful, as too many compliments to the single lady will make her suspicious of the reasons of your attention. 

So, people like to be liked. And a single lady adores the men who pay attention at them. And the more attention you pay the more you are adored by the single lady.