Why do foreign men like Russian women
Feminism, growing all around the world, creates a favorable background to Russian women who are reputed to be beautiful, unaffected with new ideas, clever, sociable, obedient (sometimes ;)), family-oriented, kids-delivering, husband-loving. The beautiful appearance of Russian women passes well to the inner qualities of Russian women.
Foreign men believe that Russian women are physically very attractive, hot and tender, hospitable and open to new acquaintances. They find the cultural level of Russian women very high. Russian women are fond of art, music, they are wonderful at sports.
Despite possessing good manners, Russian women lose to foreign ones in outer openness. Smiling woman always attracts, and serious face spurns. The myth of seriousness of Russian women is still alive, though people make allowance for the climate. The foreign men are puzzled with the faces of Russian women where they cannot read emotions. Russian women do not gesticulate a lot, and do not use facial expressions when telling something. Some foreign men see the usual conversation between Russian women as an unpleasant “showdown”. Foreign men do not understand the manner of Russian women to get straight to business, they do not welcome this tradition and refer to it as to rudeness.
Russian women are known to be sexy and tender. Russian women tend not to show their affection in public: kissing and caressing are done in private places. But it is not connected to their ‘coldness’. It is just because in Russia and Ukraine it is not a rule for people out of teen-age to kiss in public places, at the meadows, and wherever possible.
Russian women have strong characters and hearth-keepers. It is very important for foreign men that the family takes the first place in the life of Russian women. At first foreign husband cannot understand the reasons of over-care, which Russian women show taking the problems of foreign husbands to heart. Then the men get used that Russian women take them as kids.
The bulk of Russian women do not know the difference of between the levels of their life and that of Europe, between the relationships of men and women here and there. Russian women do not think that their life is not normal. They do not know that it is not normal to work from the early morning till night, to cook, clean, wash all the days long, to go to work, to take kids to school – and to do this all alone. Russian women like the myth, that they are the only ones who possess such qualities as sincerity, understanding, and that they – Russian women – are not as materialistic and unpractical in life as western people, and that they, Russian women, have their own ‘secrets’ and ‘peculiarities’ or Russian soul.
Russian women often love not ‘for something’ but ‘despite of something’. Instead of living their own lives, Russian women throw all the forces to fight the drawbacks of their chosen ones. Russian women push their men there, where they feel they will be able to realize their potential abilities to the best. So, the men won’t become happy, besides there is no guarantee that even after doing everything that Russian women want them to, they will hardly change in the desired way. In old English fairy-tale a princess fell in love with the frog and decided that if she would kiss it long enough, the amphibian will turn into the prince charming. The princess tried her best, and as a result… she turned into the frog herself. If Russian women aim to fight the drawbacks of men (to kiss frogs), they are to stop! The princes are those, whose faults Russian women do not want to correct, whose drawbacks are sweet and loved. If it is not so, there is no sense in aiming at this. It is close to impossible to change an adult man. Especially if he is reluctant. As a result, Russian women end with headaches, always dull mood (because of the ruined dreams) and they have to become similar to their partners, to lower their social and moral level to their level.
