How to choose a good husband

Nowadays Russian woman can choose herself a husband, relying only on her own feelings and taste. Despite the common opinion that there is catastrophic shortage of men, and it is very difficult for Russian woman to get married, the practice shows that Russian woman meets many men desiring to get into the ties of marriage. How can Russian woman make the right choice and not to forget about it later? You need to pay attention not only at the merits of the fiance, but also at his flaws. 

He hurries up 

People say that Russian woman hurries to get married. But there are men who are ready to take Russian woman to the marriage registration office already after several dates. Russian woman shouldn’t be taken away by the romanticism of this gesture; she is to weigh all pros and cons. Is Russian woman ready to tie the life with man she hardly knows? Is Russian woman sure of his honesty and decency? Aren’t there any hidden motives of his haste? In any case it is better for Russian woman to know the man, she plans to start family with, longer than several days or weeks. 

Helpless

Choosing a husband, Russian woman hopes to find a reliable defender and supporter in his face. And what happens when a man looks at the drill with the same awkwardness and screams as loud as Russian woman when he sees a mouse? The following happens – Russian woman sees that in this relationships it is not he who would be the man. Is Russian woman ready to do all the men’s work about the house? Take care of the running taps? Solves the car repairing problems? It is only for Russian woman to decide. 

Unemployed

One more drawback of a man is absence of the permanent working place. When Russian woman thinks of the way to choose the right husband, she often thinks of the stability both in relationships and in common income as well. A man who changes his job too often or doesn’t look for it at all is not a good aid for Russian woman. When Russian woman contrives in attempts to improve the family’s material well-being, he will be lying on the sofa, favourably accepting her strivings. 

If a man promises to find work, but during three months the situation at home of Russian woman doesn’t change, it is for sure to remain unchanged. 

Jealous

Of course, Russian woman feels pleased to be aware that the man is not indifferent to her, that he cannot even imagine some other man by her side, that he is ready to protect Russian woman from any encroachment on her dignity. But sometimes jealousy crosses all the limits, and it is unbearable for Russian woman to live like this. 

As a rule, jealousy has a tendency to grow into the total control. It is impossible for Russian woman to leave home, her phone list and e-mail box are always checked by her man, and any little delay with coming home from work causes a row. By the way, this pathological jealousy often points that the man himself is sinful or sis morally ready to betray.  It makes him think that faithfulness doesn’t exist and that Russian woman is unfaithful to him. 

Dependent/Addicted

It doesn’t matter what the man is addicted to – alcohol, drugs, computer games, his mother. This will interfere with his relationships with Russian woman and may cause discord. If Russian woman thinks how to choose a husband who wont add his problems to her life, she is to avoid men who cannot get rid of any serious addiction. Russian woman shouldn’t hope that the wedding will wonderfully change it all. It often happens so that Russian woman’s naivety leads to years of failing attempts to solve the man’s problems without any guarantee of success.

Aggressive 

Men are generally more aggressive, but Russian woman seems to take it easily. There are different hormones that affect Russian women and men. There are limits to acceptable aggression. If a man lets loose to his fists, provokes scandals, morally humiliates, often tells bad things in Russian woman’s address, tries to cause her pain, he definitely has huge psychological problems. These problems cannot be cured by the wedding or the attempts of the Russian woman to meet the man’s demands. With years, impunity gives the false feeling of permissiveness, and it can lead to tragedy. It is for Russian woman to decide if she needs such a husband. 

We are all тещ without drawbacks. We are to fight some of them, compromise the other, and some are to be left aside. If a man possesses some qualities that Russian woman believes inacceptable, it is meaningless to hope that Russian woman will manage to change the adult person who is used to living as he likes. Russian woman shouldn’t marry the first one who proposes to her, and close her eyes at the things that are unpleasant to her. How should Russian woman choose a man? It is very simple – trust your heart and do not forget of the common sense.