Beautiful and single lady

Maybe this is about you - beautiful and single lady. You are tired of being single lady. But those you like happen to be mean men, and decent ones do not attract you. Maybe you just cannot forget the man who made you unhappy once?

Add to this lack of self-confidence and constant hesitation in your attractiveness, and you have all the grounds to diagnose the so called "Marilyn Monroe syndrome". It is difficult to believe but single lady Marilyn Monroe failed to create relationships where she would feel happy. And this is despite endless line of contenders for the heart of this single lady. Even more surprising is the fact that this single lady married only those men, who didn't love her and treated her with neglect. Besides, this amazing single lady believed that she was very unbeautiful and unattractive.

Why is it so, that one single lady has a good life, and another single lady always gets in a pretty messy relationships, that bring her more sorrow than joy? It is evident that the reason is not in the appearance of a single lady, and Marilyn Monroe's life is a bright example to this. The reason is more in the way the single lady perceives herself and builds her relationships with people. 

The roots of this syndrome are deep in the childhood of the single lady. Quite often the single lady who got in this trap was deprived of unconditional parental love. There are different situations, when parents are dissatisfied, frustrated or angry with the behavior of the child, but it is important for him/her to know that at the same time they do not stop loving him/her. That is the unconditional parental love that gives children ability to love and respect themselves. No single lady can manage to build normal relationships with people without it. 

Without getting love from her parents, a girl grows into a single lady who tries to solve her childhood's problem through choosing partners who cannot give single lady much love, and the single lady wastes much effort to become worthy of them, and blames herself in all the failures. 

A single lady is to build her life independently. At first a single lady is to avoid communication with the men, who like treating her badly and causing single lady harm. A single lady shouldn't support this style of relationships, when she is rejected, and when a single lady painfully fights for the love of a man. Let the single lady's pity for the men, thoughts of their subtle spiritual organization and hurt psycho stop being the justification of the lack of attention to a single lady. Single lady shouldn't forget that she was born for calm, even, relying relationships. At first it will be difficult, as a single lady is used to building the relationships in the different way. But a single lady shouldn't doubt. Sooner or later every single lady will learn to love and to be loved.