Slavonic Women FAQ
- I would like to find a wife of Slavonic origin through internet. Please tell me what to do.
- Some of the ladies mention in their profiles that they do not speak English. How will we communicate when we meet?
- In your online Women Gallery I can see women whom I have also seen on other dating sites, why?
- How are the women chosen to get into the Top 100?
- Are the ladies registered serious about finding a man abroad? Are they single, without boyfriends, lovers?
- I asked a girl to give me her postal address, but she didn't. What is the reason? Is she real?
- Why are all of the women in the Ladies Gallery so beautiful? They all look like models.
- Why do Slavonic women search for foreign husband? Whom do they expect to find? What is the acceptable age difference?
I would like to find a wife of Slavonic origin through internet. Please tell me what to do.
You should remember that looking for your Lady in the internet has numerous pros and cons. When you find an ad at the site, you are sure the lady is ingle, while when you try to meet someone in life, you can never be sure. The ladies from the different cultures are exotic to western men, and thus manage to keep the mystery and chemistry between the spouses much easier. Eastern ladies are more family oriented and the bulk of them would prefer being housewives, though you should ask her this question yourself, as doctors of sciences sometimes are single and searching here as well, and do not plan to leave the career. These are just few facts. The thing you are to remember is that western men are hunted by scammers. And using the help of a highly-reputable agency you get more guarantee that you won’t become the scam victim.
There are numerous articles in the internet, devoted to the international marriages, and you should study some to get sure that this is what you want. You should be ready to spend time and money finding your lady, writing to her, meeting her, sending her gifts, calling her internationally, waiting for the visa to be issued, etc. These expanses will be your responsibility. But the result is always worthy!
Some of the ladies mention in their profiles that they do not speak English. How will we communicate when we meet?
The ladies get registered at the site through the agencies because they need assistance in translating and forwarding their letters. Not everyone has a personal computer or speaks good English. There are free web-sites where the ladies can get registered on their own, but such site cannot control them, and there are many scammers among those registered.
Many ladies who register at the site start learning English at once, most yet wait till they meet the man of their life. Then they are sure if they should make stress on learning English or French or Spanish, etc. When they see the aim, the motivation is much higher.
In the meanwhile we offer our translation services.
In your online Women Gallery I can see women whom I have also seen on other dating sites, why?
When a lady decides to search for the man abroad, she tries to make the search as effective as possible. Thus she can get registered at several agencies in her native city (which can be 3-4 or several hundreds like it is in Kiev), and each of the local agencies can be affiliated to several international websites. Thus, getting registered in her native city, the lady posts her profile to several international sites.
How are the women chosen to get into the Top 100?
The Top 100 profiles are those that were viewed more times than the others. It has no relation to the quantity of the letters the lady gets.
Are the ladies registered serious about finding a man abroad? Are they single, without boyfriends, lovers?
When the lady gets registered, the local agency gets her passport scanned. If the lady is divorced, she has two stamps in her passport – one of marriage, and one of divorce. The clean passport means that she hasn’t been married.
There is no possibility to check the private life of the lady, but if the lady comes to us, it means that she is either totally single or that her relationships do not satisfy her, that they seem to be aimless, and she is looking for MARRIAGE and FAMILY with a serious and romantic man.
I asked a girl to give me her postal address, but she didn't. What is the reason? Is she real?
The girls is real, do not worry, but here comes out the aspect of cultural difference. Ladies in Slavonic cultures do not often give their addresses to men they do not know well. Even in real life they sometimes reject men when they want to accompany them to their home when it is late. So, the first reason must be cultural.
The second reason is that a girl doesn’t know what do you need her address for. Probably she doesn’t want her family and neighbours to see that she gets letters and parcels from abroad. And the worst is the unexpected coming of a foreigner to her home. Most women live with their parents, and most of them keep their membership at the site secret. If you discuss your arrival with your lady, and she invites you to meet her people – that is a wonderful sign! But if the man comes unexpectedly without warning her, which always happens when a man come to her country not to meet her, but many ladies, when he doesn’t have any commitment with the lady, then that man might get in a really unpleasant situation, which will spoil the ladies life.
So, if you want the ladies address, ask her, if her parents know of her search for the man abroad, if she would mind your sending her letters. Thoughtfulness is never spare.
Why are all of the women in the Ladies Gallery so beautiful? They all look like models.
When a lady just comes to the agency to get registered, she learns that she needs to have professionally made pictures. The point is that the lady should be placed into the proper light, proper surrounding, she must be in proper mood, and the pictures are to be of the good quality. The lady learns that the first image the man has of her is from her pictures. And this is why they are to be really good.
So she attends a photo session, where the pictures are taken. Sometimes, she takes a week to get prepared ;) She might start dieting to lose a couple of kilos, she might make a new hairdo, dye her hair, order some nail work, buy some new clothes, etc. This is why she looks like a princess. Then the photographer does his work. And the result you can see at the site.
Another important point is that many ladies of the younger age have attended the so-called model schools. And they can pose and walk quite professionally.
Remember, that when you come to meet your beloved, she will meet you at the airport, looking the same ;) She will take pains to look her best.
Her casual everyday looks will be seen on the private amateur pictures which she will send to you with her letters.
Why do Slavonic women search for foreign husband? Whom do they expect to find? What is the acceptable age difference?
Eastern Europe has its own culture, and this culture tells woman to get married soon after she finishes school. Especially evident it is in Ukraine, with its warmer climate and legal marrying age for women at 17 years old. And it is not a rare event. Those who do not enter universities quite often realize their potential in building families. This is why you can see so many young ladies at the site. If the girl is not married at 23 or so, all her family is worried, and she hears frequent annoying questions about her ‘plans for the future’. Only a married woman is considered successful here.
So why don’t they marry local men? When the children reach their teens, there are already less boys than girls. Compulsory military service, risky lifestyle, hard work, alcohol, smoking – it all leads to the situation, when at 30-35 each man can easily start his own harem. The proportion of single females to males is about 6:1. In ten years it will be 10:1.
So, if the lady wants to get married, she has to look for variants. And finding a man abroad is a very reasonable one, despite all the difficulties.
Ukraine is a very unstable country. And a woman is created to have stability in life. She needs to know her family and children will be fine. This is why she thinks of the other country as a place of living. But she cannot go there alone, she needs someone who will support her in this important change, and this is to be a man, her man, her husband.
The situation in the western countries is different. It is quite often when a man of 40 tells that he is just now ready to start a family. And the ladies understand that foreign men under 30 are not serious about marriage yet, at least most of them. Western men lead healthy lifestyle, attend gym, and look much younger than their peers from FSU countries.
So, the usual successful age difference is 10-15 years, though life is life, and on-line dating is very lifelike. And there are couples, where men are younger, and there are such, that are happy even though the age difference crosses the line of 20 years. Love, trust, respect really matter here, and also the ability of a man to justify his ladies expectations.
